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CONFLICT-COOLDOWN5 MIN READ

Build a Two-Sentence Timeout

Construct a timeout sentence that owns flooding, protects the issue, sets timing, and defines re-entry.

Victor is flooded in a Finance/Product tradeoff meeting and needs to pause without sounding like he is storming out. Own state -> protect issue -> set clock -> define re-entry The common shortcut is to say, "I cannot do this right now," and leave. That may prevent an outburst, but it gives the room no evidence that you still own the issue or will return. 1. Own state I am getting overloaded. Ownership keeps the line from sounding like an accusation about the other person's tone. 2. Protect purpose I want to keep this about the tradeoff rather than defend…

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