DE-ESCALATION5 MIN READ
The Defensive Direct Report
Respond to defensiveness by returning to observable impact and inviting intent.
In a 1:1, Jess says, "So you think I am incompetent?" after you mention missed handoffs. The next sentence determines whether the conversation becomes coaching or a trial. The decision is to lower threat first, preserve accountability, and create one concrete next step.
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