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MANAGING-YOUR-TRIGGERS4 MIN READ

Reappraisal Phrase Deck

Recall reappraisal phrases that convert threat stories into testable work questions.

Incomplete data Use when silence or ambiguity feels like disrespect. This is incomplete data, not proof of intent. Then ask for the missing context, owner, or deadline. Story vs fact Which wording keeps reappraisal honest? Facts create options; stories create certainty. Competence trigger This work is not ready. Use when criticism feels like a verdict on ability. Reappraisal line This is a readiness gap, not a competence verdict. Which part blocks the decision? I worked hard on this. It moves from defending effort to finding the decision blocker. Boundary trigger Use when a request feels disrespectful. This is an unpriced…

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