Run the Accusation Audit Before the Ask
Build an accusation audit that lowers defensiveness before a difficult ask.
Sofia must ask for a two-week delay after a missed milestone, while preserving trust and getting the client into repair planning. Accusation audit: name the likely negative story, own the true part, then ask a calibrated repair question. Opening with reasons first makes the client work to prove the emotional impact. The more Sofia explains, the more the client may hear excuse, minimization, or surprise risk. Step 1 List the worst credible accusations: "You underestimated this," "You hid the risk," "You are making my launch unsafe." Specific accusations beat vague apology because they show Sofia understands the client's likely story.…
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