Recognize the visible cue that someone has dropped into Level 1 self-listening during a meeting.
The facilitator seems productive, but the room is losing the risk signal. Find the cue that shows the facilitator has moved into self-listening instead of active listening. Facilitator looking at the laptop message draft Correct. Drafting the next message pulls attention into Level 1 self-listening, so the facilitator cannot accurately paraphrase the risk. Speaker gesturing while explaining the delay The speaker is giving the signal. The risk is not her gesture; it is that the listener is not fully receiving it. Quiet team members watching the speaker Quiet observers are not automatically the problem. They may be listening. The visible…
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