Simple vs. Complex Reflections
Choose between a simple and complex reflection based on what the speaker needs next.
Reflection depth is a choice, not a personality trait. Simple reflection Stay close to the words when the speaker needs steadiness or when you are not sure you understood. A simple reflection is not shallow; it can be the cleanest way to slow a conversation down. Complex reflection Add a careful guess about meaning when the surface words carry tension. The guess should be easy to correct. Try: Part of you wants to support the sprint, and part of you doubts the commitment is realistic. The practical test If your inference would surprise the speaker in a bad way, start…
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