Use a Caucus Without Creating Secrets
Use a private caucus ethically by clarifying purpose, confidentiality, and return path.
Noor has shut down after a blaming comment. You need private clarity without creating a perception of secret alliance. Transparent purpose -> Equal access -> Interest focus -> Permissioned return The common trap is to pull Noor aside quietly and ask, 'What is really going on?' That may feel supportive, but it creates hidden process. Elliot can reasonably wonder what was said and whether the facilitator is now carrying Noor's case. Ethical Caucus State purpose Explain why a private check-in helps the joint process. Offer symmetry Give both parties access to the same process. Set confidentiality Do not share private…
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